Anxiety & performance anxietyHow to Overcome Self Sabotage and Move Forward
You may know exactly what you want: a healthier relationship, a new career step, more confidence in a meeting, or freedom from a habit that no longer serves you.
LISA'S JOURNAL
Practical reflections on transforming old patterns, relationships, performance anxiety, increasing self-worth, creative and athletic performances, and the tools that can support healthy changes.
Written by Lisa Lichtenstein, LMFT, CHT, NLP
Anxiety & performance anxietyYou may know exactly what you want: a healthier relationship, a new career step, more confidence in a meeting, or freedom from a habit that no longer serves you.
HypnotherapyYou may understand exactly what needs to change and still find yourself repeating the same response: avoiding the call, reaching for a cigarette, freezing before a presentation, or assuming the worst in a relationship.
Individual and Couples TherapyA relationship can look perfectly functional from the outside while feeling lonely, tense, or exhausting behind closed doors.
NLP and meaningful changeYou may look capable from the outside - holding down a job, caring for others, showing up when it matters - while privately feeling as if you are never quite enough.
Anxiety & performance anxietyA panic surge can make an ordinary moment feel suddenly unsafe. Grounding techniques offer small, concrete ways to return attention to what is real, immediate, and manageable.
Anxiety & performance anxietyEmotional regulation therapy is a supportive, practical process for understanding what your feelings are telling you and choosing how you want to respond.
Grief, loss & traumaLearning how to process difficult emotions means creating enough safety to feel what is true, understand what needs attention, and choose what happens next.
Goal achievement & self-esteemThe signs of low self-worth are not always obvious. They can appear as self-doubt, perfectionism, people-pleasing, or a painful tendency to measure your value through performance and approval.
NLP and meaningful changeLearn how emotional patterns form, why insight alone may not change them, and how small supported responses can create more choice in everyday life.
Couple &/or InfidelityAttachment patterns can shape how you seek closeness, manage conflict, and respond to uncertainty. With awareness, support, and practice, you can build safer ways of relating.
Anxiety & performance anxietySocial anxiety can make ordinary moments feel like tests. With practical support and gradual practice, you can participate more freely without waiting to feel perfectly confident.
Anxiety & performance anxietyTherapy for burnout offers a safe, warm environment to understand what has been draining you and begin creating a life that does not require you to abandon yourself to keep up.
NLP and meaningful changeAn NLP-informed therapy process can help you notice old patterns, rehearse new responses, and move toward meaningful goals with support from a licensed LMFT online throughout California.
NLP and meaningful changePersonal transformation therapy helps you understand what is holding you back while practicing the changes that move you toward the life you want.
NLP and meaningful changeAddiction recovery therapy creates a safe and warm environment to understand what keeps a pattern in place and begin building a life in which you have more choice.
Anxiety & performance anxietyDepression therapy for adults creates a private, supportive space to address feeling depleted, understand the patterns beneath it, and begin moving toward meaningful change.
HypnotherapyHypnotherapy for anxiety relief can offer a focused way to work with automatic responses while helping you develop a calmer, more confident relationship with yourself.
NLP and meaningful changeTherapy for neurodiverse adults should offer a safe and warm environment where your experiences are taken seriously and growth does not require you to hide who you are.
Couple &/or InfidelityHealthy relationships are built through honest communication, mutual respect, clear boundaries, and the willingness to repair after difficult moments.
NLP and meaningful changeChanging unwanted habits begins with understanding what the pattern has been doing for you, then building a more supportive way forward without shame.
NLP and meaningful changeNLP for goal achievement helps close the gap between what you want and the patterns that have kept you from moving forward.
HypnotherapyTherapy for fears and phobias offers a private, supportive place to understand what is happening and begin taking back the choices that fear has been making for you.
Anxiety & performance anxietyOvercoming public speaking fear is about helping your mind and body feel safe enough for your real voice, knowledge, and personality to come through.
HypnotherapyHypnotherapy for weight loss looks beyond willpower and toward the patterns, emotions, and beliefs shaping your choices.
“I'm your psychological "Sherpa" — I carry the tools, and I trek with you until you've summited your goals.”